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As someone who’s failed at love and relationships more than I’ve gotten it right maybe I get why the pursuit question is so difficult. There’s something in men (wow it’s challenging to make generalizations based on gender) but we do want to chase, pursue, etc the woman who catches our eye. That can go badly in so many ways, but balanced and mostly wholesome it’s beautiful for all. I still “pursue” my wife of nearly 20 years…can’t stop. Not sure how this attitude fits into our appropriately sensitive culture but I’m delighted you began the conversation.

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